Yesterday I woke up with a good song in my head so naturally I was singing all day at work. In my own personal good mood for no real reason at all, I walked around the office smiling at random people and the reaction I got was truly amazing. One woman I never spoke to stopped me in the corridor just to tell me my new haircut was fabulous (definitely cut my hair last month and saw this same woman every day at work). Another guy who works on the same floor (different company) stopped me mid stride to ask if I was a Model. And every player I had was unusually pleasant, a few even raved about how gorgeous I am (although, anyone would be gorgeous if they were handing you a check for thousands of dollars…lol).

The accolades were great for boosting my self confidence but I didn’t see anything too remarkable in those. After all, the complements could have been because the particular cut of jean I was wearing made my ass look phenomenal, or simply because it was Friday and everyone was ready for the freakin’ weeken’ (lol). Either way I didn’t care about WHAT people were saying to me, it was HOW they said it. Everyone I ran into saw me smiling and in turn smiled back, they had no choice but to say something good because my energy made them feel good.

I felt Powerful, even a little manipulative…Bwahaha. My Positive Energy bestowed itself on to innocent victims leaving them with nothing but a cheery disposition! I kid, but seriously the truly remarkable part of it all was the reaction I got from the Haters of the office, the women who seemingly are always in a bad mood for no reason and you dare not bump into because they will bring you all the way down( beware they are everywhere!). Even they couldn’t resist the energy that radiated from inside me and I realized Positivity is contagious.

Psychologically people are affected by one another through emotion. If someone is sitting around bashing the entire Universe and gives you a grim look, of course you’re going to be in a bad mood afterward. Not only that, you might even cause someone else to be in a bad mood when you walk in the next room talking about how ugly Sally was in the break room and how she “better not mess with you” because you “got those hands for her” (lol).  Negativity is just as contagious as Positivity the only difference is the outcome.

I understand we can’t walk around everyday like we just won a Sweepstakes but we can try to start our days off with something positive that will last all day. If positivity is beyond your realm of imagination I suggest you try thinking about your favorite song, or just smile at a random person. You might make someone’s day or better yet you might even make your own day.

<3 Chris

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